Hi Mike,
I am using the JooStrap template which is a bare bones Bootstrap 3 template for Joomla. It's like a dragster: lightweight, blazing fast, not very forgiving to the unexperienced operator. It requires very thorough customization to make something beautiful, i.e. you end up doing templating the "right way". The great thing about this approach is that it never breaks when updating Joomla -there's not much PHP code to have issues with!- and it's blazing fast, again because there's so little PHP.
Then, there's chaos. Every template framework has a tonne of PHP code and all of that comes at a price in terms of execution speed, possibility that something breaks on update or straight up bad code having unintended results (as you painfully observed). I am not comfortable using any framework-based template but if I were absolutely forced to I would go to one of the established template providers like RocketTheme, JoomlArt etc. Their code is still heavy and they do have the occasional bad idea but it's usually with optional features. As a rule of thumb, if you have enabled the default Admin Tools configuration options, including the .htaccess Maker, and something doesn't work in a template: don't use that something because it'd be a security nightmare.
And a final tip. All template clubs have free templates which use their template framework. Try them on a dev site and see if you have problems, evaluate their performance etc. This is the best way to make an informed decision.
I hope that helps!
Nicholas K. Dionysopoulos
Lead Developer and Director
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